Tuesday, December 4, 2012

A Temple Hike

Last weekend our school had an unannounced five day holiday.  Before returning home, a group of senior students planned to hike a local mountain together, Shane and I joined.


We took a bus across the bridge that connects Xintang to the neighboring town of Hengshan.  In Hengshan we ate lunch together at a restaurant that somehow managed to accommodate all of us.  What was so touching was that the students insisted on paying for everything, they wouldn't let Shane and I pay a cent.  The hike up the mountain was short and not too strenuous, especially since we kept stopping to take group pictures.  The students were happy and silly because it was their first day of break and they were responsibility-free.  As we walked, one student sang songs for me, another held my hand.

At the top of the mountain was a huge 3-storey temple.  We explored the temple, and at the top floor met the caretaker of the temple.  She gave us all incense to light, and many students prayed.  The woman then took about 50 kumquats, which had been offered to the Buddha, and gave them to all of us.  The students said eating this fruit will bring good luck for life.  The woman was so kind to the students, and the students were so respectful.  It was beautiful to watch their interactions.  The woman then took all the apple offerings and gave them to Shane and I.  While saying goodbye, I held hands with her and promised to return.  She promised to teach me more about Buddhism.


Walking back down the temple, I talked with a girl who is beginning to feel more like a friend than a student.  I think we both felt the temple visit was very special.  She decided she is going to visit that temple over every break to remind her to de-stress, slow down and find peace.  At only 16 and with limited English, this girl was able to summarize why I find myself drawn to temples in China- to slow down and find peace.

Monday, December 3, 2012

Thanksgiving

We had a homemade feast for Thanksgiving here in Hunan, complete with a broccoli casserole, stuffed mushrooms, garlic mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, carrots, green beans and Chinese-style chicken.  We had two chickens slaughtered for our meal- my first time buying live poultry in China.  Another teacher and her son, and two of my senior students joined Shane, Shobana and I for the meal.

I took a few minutes to reflect on what I am thankful for this year...

My students
What a fun couple months it has been, full of exploration and discovery, for both the students and myself.  Class is truly a collaborative experience.  We learn together, my students and I, what activities work and what activities totally flop.  They accept me, no matter the outcome, and they do what is asked with energy and curiosity.  Class is full of funny moments, but my favorites are when my students and I both find something amusing and we share a good laugh.

Halloween!
The pace of life
Last June the NY Times featured an excellent piece on America's 'Busy' Trap.  The message resonated with me and I'm now more conscious of how often I tell people I'm busy.  The pace of life here in Xintang is slower and relaxed, and I'm learning to adjust.  I get my work done, but it doesn't consume my whole day and brain.  I have time for long walks into town, blogging and reading.  I'm relatively caught up on emails and sleep.  Playing with students never gets old.  It feels great to take time to enjoy.

Beautiful scenery
The people here, adults and students alike, enjoying spending time exploring the great outdoors.  This has been a wonderful discovery.  A couple weeks ago I joined the local bike group on a 100km group ride through Hunan's countryside.  It was just like long rides I've been on in the US, with water and food stops, the only difference was this group had smoking stops too.  I knew it was going to be a good ride when one of the men rode up beside me playing Gangnam Syle on his bike speaker.

Danic, fellow English teacher and friend who introduced me to the bike group.